{"id":4511,"date":"2016-06-19T08:04:24","date_gmt":"2016-06-19T08:04:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/?p=4511"},"modified":"2025-09-03T16:00:13","modified_gmt":"2025-09-03T16:00:13","slug":"fathers-day-for-coders-daddy-developer-tech-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/shipping-code\/fathers-day-for-coders-daddy-developer-tech-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"Father&#8217;s Day for coders: Daddy Developer Tech Tips"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Recently, my time has been a little pre-occupied. Not so much because of all the awesome new technical innovations I have been able to work on lately like <a href=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/shippingcode\/connectivity-between-nginx-and-consul-template\/\">microservices in .NET<\/a>, nor because of the awesome <a href=\"https:\/\/dotnet.github.io\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">new features happening in .NET<\/a> that is causing a revolution in the linux space, but instead, it is because of this guy:<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4519\" src=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/SleepingBaby-300x169.png\" alt=\"Sleeping Baby\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/SleepingBaby-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/SleepingBaby-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/SleepingBaby.png 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: smaller; font-weight: 400; font-family: 'Courier New';\">I wonder if he is dreaming about code too\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p>In the past few months, I have had the great honor of becoming a father. And fun and exciting as that may be, I have to admit, it is a bit of work that takes away from a lot of time and energy.<\/p>\n<p>In case you find yourself in a similar world, I am here to help by sharing a few of the awesome tidbits I have come across that make having a baby manageable in the demanding world of the tech industry.<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s get started&#8230;<\/p>\n<h2>Tablets EVERYWHERE<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4518\" src=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/ReadingTablet-169x300.png\" alt=\"Daddy reading tablet\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/ReadingTablet-169x300.png 169w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/ReadingTablet.png 576w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>OMG, how did we exist as a species without these things!? Initially they were a blessing as I ended up being stuck in the hospital with nothing to do while <del>my wife suffered and cursed me<\/del> I went through the magic and miracle of birth. Only later, after our baby was born did I realize a tablet\u2019s true magic!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4515\" src=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/HarryPotterTablet-169x300.png\" alt=\"Harry Potter on Tablet\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/HarryPotterTablet-169x300.png 169w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/HarryPotterTablet-768x1365.png 768w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/HarryPotterTablet-576x1024.png 576w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/HarryPotterTablet.png 900w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: smaller; font-weight: 400; font-family: 'Courier New';\">Real Magic!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I can lookup an immediately needed baby treatment. Or when I find myself bored as I walk around a room consoling my son, I can read tech news\/books! Useful tip: read enthusiastically to your child, even if it is not \u201cThe Happiest Little Elf\u201d, just the fact that it is interesting to you (like this blog hopefully) will pique your child\u2019s interest by your enthusiam.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4517\" src=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/MicroservicesBook-229x300.png\" alt=\"Microservices Book\" width=\"229\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/MicroservicesBook-229x300.png 229w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/MicroservicesBook-768x1008.png 768w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/MicroservicesBook-780x1024.png 780w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/MicroservicesBook.png 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 229px) 100vw, 229px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: smaller; font-weight: 400; font-family: 'Courier New';\">The daddy monolith then posted to the baby service&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>My favorite thing about tablets: with inventions such as <a href=\"http:\/\/www.swype.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">swype<\/a>, you can still do basic work\/email\/chat and once again feel productive!<\/p>\n<p>Luckily I was able to buy a few different brands of cheap tablets before the baby was born.\u00a0Keep in mind, you have 9 months to buy tablets, so keep an eye out for sales, especially on deal sites such as <a href=\"http:\/\/www.woot.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">woot.com<\/a> or during Christmas (the kindle fire is almost a dead ringer for a sale for less than $35 at least twice a year).<\/p>\n<h2>Start reading \u201cdad\u201d books on your tablet!!!<\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-4512\" src=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/BePreparedBook-300x254.png\" alt=\"Book Be Prepared\" width=\"300\" height=\"254\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/BePreparedBook-300x254.png 300w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/BePreparedBook.png 620w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A life saver for me was the book \u201c<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Be-Prepared-Gary-Greenberg\/dp\/0743251547\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Be Prepared<\/a>\u201d. A friend recommended it when we announced, and being a former boyscout, I must admit I was nowhere near as prepared as I thought I could be, but this book has had my back when I have needed it. I must admit, in this day and age, there really is no excuse for dads not to read something about parenthood with the availability of so much information.<\/p>\n<p>The best part about this book: it tells you the things you <strong>really<\/strong> care about, like how to stop a baby\u2019s crying, how to change diapers without getting poop everywhere, or how to sleep (spoiler: you don\u2019t\u2026 just kidding, but it does have some good tricks for the worst of nights).<\/p>\n<p>Broken up by age in months, and being a short read, it feels like I am reading cheat codes for parenthood.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-4522\" src=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/babality-1024x576.png\" alt=\"Mortal Kombat babality\" width=\"610\" height=\"343\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/babality-1024x576.png 1024w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/babality-300x169.png 300w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/babality-768x432.png 768w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/babality.png 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 610px) 100vw, 610px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Even nurses at the hospital asked where I had gotten my \u201cexperience\u201d, whether it was from other children or having lots of siblings. Luckily my wife was there to inform them I cheated.<\/p>\n<h2>Use a standing desk AND a baby carrier at the same time<\/h2>\n<p>As developers, I think most of us are pretty used to the fact that we live a sedentary lifestyle almost to the point of sloth. As such, we have learned that standing desks are the \u201csupposed\u201d cure for our lethargic lifestyles.<\/p>\n<p>Despite my unwillingness to conform to the new norm of standing desks, I must admit, it is not that bad when you are forced down that path.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4521\" src=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/StandingDesk.png\" alt=\"StandingDesk\" width=\"305\" height=\"542\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/StandingDesk.png 305w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/StandingDesk-169x300.png 169w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 305px) 100vw, 305px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Luckily I was able to find a few tidbits from Jimmy Bogard\u2019s blog on <a href=\"https:\/\/lostechies.com\/jimmybogard\/2012\/11\/20\/ikea-stand-up-desk-two-months-later\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">how to setup a standing desk<\/a>. I also was able to find some cheap chromebooks online, so\u00a0this turned out to be a lot simpler than I imagined with my kitchen bar meeting my needs without having to go and get a lot of equipment from ikea (so far).<\/p>\n<p>Also,\u00a0if you find it too hard to concentrate and work with a baby on you, I have come to find that Star Wars Battlefront has the advantage of having perfect star wars lullabies and rocking movements that work for those middle of the night wakings as well.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4514\" src=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/GamingBaby.png\" alt=\"Daddy baby gaming\" width=\"407\" height=\"543\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/GamingBaby.png 407w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/GamingBaby-225x300.png 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 407px) 100vw, 407px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Assume there\u2019s a Technology for that<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Are you used to using <a href=\"http:\/\/stackoverflow.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Stack Overflow<\/a> for all your code questions? Use the <a href=\"http:\/\/parenting.stackexchange.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Parenting Stack Exchange<\/a> for all your parenting questions.<\/li>\n<li>Or do you just need some tips for those <a href=\"http:\/\/knowyourmeme.com\/memes\/the-narwhal-bacons-at-midnight\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">midnight narwhal bacon feedings<\/a>? Use <a href=\"https:\/\/www.reddit.com\/r\/parenting\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Reddit<\/a> instead.<\/li>\n<li>At the hospital for a long labor and hungry? Need blankets\/pillows to sleep on while you wait? Or just need groceries and can\u2019t find time to go out with a new baby? See if <a href=\"https:\/\/primenow.amazon.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Amazon Prime Now<\/a> is available in your area.<\/li>\n<li>Big into social media instead, there is a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ladieswithbabies\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ladies with Babies Facebook Group<\/a> with all types of useful tidbits.<\/li>\n<li>Can\u2019t get the baby to sleep in the crib? My wife and I swear by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Baby-Merlins-Magic-Sleepsuit-Cotton\/dp\/B00KHZPH74\/ref=sr_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;qid=1466138265&amp;amp;sr=8-1&amp;amp;keywords=magic+merlin+sleepsuit\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Baby Merlin&#8217;s Magic Sleep Suit<\/a> and wish you the same luck we have had with it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4516\" src=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/MagicMerlin.png\" alt=\"Magic Merlin Sleep Suite\" width=\"187\" height=\"332\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/MagicMerlin.png 187w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/MagicMerlin-169x300.png 169w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 187px) 100vw, 187px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>Conclusion<\/h2>\n<p>The above are just a few of the awesome little tricks I have come across with the help of technology, but I will be needing more in the upcoming months. As such, if you do find you have any tips, please share them in the comments!<\/p>\n<p>And most importantly, <strong>Happy Father\u2019s Day\u00a0<\/strong>to all the dads out there!<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4520 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/SmilingBaby.png\" alt=\"Smiling Baby\" width=\"305\" height=\"542\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/SmilingBaby.png 305w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/SmilingBaby-169x300.png 169w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 305px) 100vw, 305px\" \/><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4513 alignleft\" src=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/DadAndSon.png\" alt=\"Dad and son\" width=\"187\" height=\"332\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/DadAndSon.png 187w, https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/06\/DadAndSon-169x300.png 169w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 187px) 100vw, 187px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Recently, my time has been a little pre-occupied. Not so much because of all the awesome new technical innovations I have been able to work on lately like microservices in .NET, nor because of the awesome new features happening in .NET that is causing a revolution in the linux space, but instead, it is because&#8230;<a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/shipping-code\/fathers-day-for-coders-daddy-developer-tech-tips\/\"> Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":15,"featured_media":4522,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[295,2],"tags":[220,297],"class_list":["post-4511","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-shipping-code","category-company-news","tag-microservices","tag-shipping-code"],"acf":{"blog_post_content":null},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4511","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/15"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4511"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4511\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4522"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4511"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4511"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ushipblogsubd.wpengine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4511"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}