No, I'm sorry. If I pay for a hotel room and sit around waiting for you, I can't make any money.
To answer your previous question, you can cancel a request, but not after the driver has already started driving to the pick up location, unless you reimburse him for that time. Really, it's best for everyone if you don't do that.
Also, you now want to decline by bid so that your job reappears on Uship for other drivers to bid on.
Thank you for considering my services.