Also, let kids say goodbye to the stuff they didn't like about the old house, like scary noises (for the little ones) or a tiny, shared bathroom (for the older kids). This will help them let go of their old house and make a positive transition to their new home.

Create an essentials box

Each member of your family should be given an "essentials" box for the day of the move. Once you've packed an extra set of clothes and some toiletries, give your children freedom to fill the box as they like.

Special blankets, favorite stuffed animals, movies, books, pictures, and toys are some things your kids may want to put in their essentials box. When you arrive, unpack these items immediately to make it feel more like home.

Let them do something else

Babies and school age children are distracting during a move. Consider hiring a babysitter or letting a family friend watch them during the day.

Older kids and teenagers can help on moving day but would probably rather spend their time with friends. Let them go to an amusement park or the movies while you pack up the house.

Pack entertainment for the move

If you have a long drive or flight to your new home, don't forget to pack lots of entertainment for the kids. Video games, DVDs, music, and toys will keep them happy (and you sane) during the trip.